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The Church that Kept Me There

Suffering Love: A Redemptive Force or an Enabling One?

The Truth About Reconciliation

I Know How the Blind Man Felt

Faith Was Never Meant to be an Add-On

Reject the Counsel of the Doubters: The Wicked Still Walk Among Us

Believers Considering Divorce

Praying for the Right Thing

My Most Painful Confession: Coming Clean With God and Myself

Maybe I Was Married to an Abuser

Love Never Fails?

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Cindy’s Articles

The Four-Word Phrase I No Longer Allow In My Life
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He Really Believes…
Love Keeps No Record of Wrongs?
My New Book on Christian Marriage Counseling Is Now Available!
Life on the Other Side: “The Best Christmas Ever”
Is He Throwing Mud at the Wall?
The Dreaded “D” Word
Maybe It Wasn’t That Bad
“I’ve Changed”
The Black Sheep
Letter to a Pastor Explaining Biblical Divorce
Two Lifetimes
But I Still Love Him
Selfish Giving
Ask Yourself One All-Important Question
Wisdom in the Counsel of Many?
Trusting Your Instincts
The Trauma of Betrayal
Abusers Choose
Trying to Communicate with an Abuser
Do You Ever Feel You Are Too Much? Not Enough?
A Season of Man-Hating
The Heart Murderer
Predator or Prey?
Judge Not?
Enabling Isn’t Noble
The Messages Your Abuser is Sending
Understanding the Marriage Covenant
Charla’s Story About Brett
10 Things Your Abuser Doesn’t Want You to Know
Should You Detach?
Where’s My Gumball?
Family Culture or Family Cult?
Cindy’s Newest Book Now Available!
Lessons in Crazy-Making
The Sympathy Bond
The Only Divorce in the Bible
Identifying Financial Abusers and Their Tactics
Say the Words
An Abuse Victim’s Secret Fantasy
Did He Apologize or Not?
The Power of Words
Neglect Is Abuse
The See-No-Evil Disconnect: Abandoning Victims to Protect the Status Quo
Three Words Every Abuse Victim Needs to Hear
Passive and Controlling Abuse
101 Things an Abuser Might Say
“I’m Trying”: Setting the Stage for Failure
An Open Letter to the Ignorant (and the Abusive)
Love Your Enemies?
Shame
The Temptation to Defend Yourself to Friends and Children
It’s All On You: Part I and II
“War Room” Is Unsuitable for Victims of Abuse
Avoiding Dating Disasters
Faith Was Never Meant to be an Add-On
What Your Emotions Are Telling You
Reject the Counsel of the Doubters, for the Wicked Still Live Among Us
The Truth About Reconciliation
The Burden of Perfectionism
Response to Marriage Builder Article, “How to Fall in Love Again”
Misunderstood
Response to Marriage Builder Article, “How to Change Fear”
Trump Cards: The Abuser’s Game-Changer
I Can’t Stand You (Please Don’t Leave Me)
Second Editions of “Why Is He So Mean to Me?” and “God Is My Witness: Making a Case for Biblical Divorce,” Are Now Available
Suffering Love: A Redemptive Force or an Enabling One?
A Video to Share With Those Who Don’t Understand Verbal Abuse
The Face of Abuse
Give Me Five Minutes (Things I Would Like to Say To An Abuse Victim)
Leaving Abuse: A Journey Into The Great Unknown
The Most Painful Confession: Coming Clean With God – and Myself
“No One Else Will Ever Want You” and Other Lies and Slanders
If Only He Would Hit Me
Life in a Toxic Home
The Religious Vipers At It Again
Liar, Liar
Am I Being Abused?
Sleeping With An Abuser
Why The Abuse Victim Doesn’t Leave (In Six Words)
Life on the Other Side
Can the Relationship Be Saved?
The Church That Kept Me There
Charla’s Story About Brett
Checklist Blackmail
Lanterns for Amberly
The Unreachable
Isolation: Another Weapon in the Abuser’s Arsenal
The Heart’s Sweet Lie
Waiting At the Window
Seven Long Years
Cindy On The Radio Again, Discussing Marriage,Divorce and Abuse
Maybe I Was Married to An Abuser
Cindy on the radio again. Topic is Christian Divorce!
A Redemptive Look at Three of the Most Commonly Misappropriated Scriptures on the Subject of Divorce (Part III)
Podcast Links from Radio Show Cindy was on Discussing Abuse
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A Redemptive Look at Three of the Most Commonly Misappropriated Scriptures on the Subject of Divorce (Part II)
A Redemptive Look at Three of the Most Commonly Misappropriated Scriptures on the Subject of Divorce (Part I)

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