First off, this is Doug, not Cindy. So forgive my un-gentleness.
Over at Reformed Baptist Fellowship.org Pastor D. Scott Meadows gives us a glimpse into the world of domination and control by wrongly wielding the scriptures to once again enforce the abusers mindset of total Narcissistic behavior and control over his ever so godly and submissive wife.
Here is a link to the manipulative article he wrote. A Christian Wife’s Marriage Catechism
And here is what I think of it!
At my church like many other churches they have a Men’s Ministry group, although I feel the name should be changed to “Men that 
Minister.” Anyway, I am always baffled when I am around men and they comment about how they seem to have a hard time connecting with their wives. Or when they share their displeasure of their marriage to me. This happened a long time ago in case someone is lurking and being nosy.
Now, first of all I must let it be known that I certainly do not occupy the corner of the market on wisdom in marriage, nor am I an expert on anything but knowing one thing for sure and that is that Christ came for restoration, and that we should seek restoration in all relationships if possible. I say “if possible” because it takes two to tango. Free will is involved. But when two persons’ will is to be restored and they seek the great Restorer then all things are possible.